Andy Shaw:

Ben’s efforts are being used up in trying to make it happen and not making it happen. He cannot work diligently on making it happen, because he is working on trying to make it happen. He is trying too hard and as Yoda said, “Do. Or do not. There is no try.”

Yet the ones who succeed, they try really hard, right? No, they are detached and just working diligently. You can call it trying, but they are not trying, they are doing. Only the unsuccessful keep trying… You may wish to consider that for awhile.